Scribble..!!

After Posting ~~We Civilians~~  my aim was to make as much people read my blog as I can. At that very moment what all was moving in my mind was that people will get charged up after reading my that Post and will do some thing big, bring the change in themselves. But Life never gives Us what we think and what we want, but never leaves us empty handed.. every time leaves us with some new lesson.

I passed on the link of my post to all my friends and family members. Few of them read it and most of them ignored it. Then an idea struck my mind, I made a plan of endorsing my Blog on social networking sites. All I had in my mind was that people will read my blog and will promise to themselves that they will follow atleast one out of three points I mentioned in We Civilians. But what I actually got to see was that people who read my blog had words of appreciation for my writing skills and my initiation but there were very few out of them who actually came up  and said yes I am going to change myself and change the things around. 

This was still digestible but a reaction of one of the reader really shook me. I asked someone randomly to read my blog.. His comment over that was little hard for me to imbibe. "Useless one"  thats what his views were for my blog. This really made me angry, at that moment felt like slapping his face..hehehe.. and then when I asked him to take back his words.. then he just Got on my nerves, his reply to that made me somewhere heart broken. Let me share his words with you all.

@Jinks: ~~we Civilians~

Ok, Now I went to your Blog And What i Find Was......
Its Another empty Attempt Started By Any 'Youngistaani' Who Will Be Soon Forgetting All Such Stuff Errupted In MUMBAI!
Tame My Words!
i was Not interested in replying you the last time But this time you provoked me Pretty Well..!
See if You are Talking About Our Approach!
We are Far More Stable and Alert Than you, Plus The Word Selfish You are approaching is Nothing But A Piece of Unstable Kiddish mentality!
Tell me Wats your age kid?
14,15 or more? huh?
Firstly Youngistan says.....CHANGE YOURSELF, BE THE CHANGE WAT YOU WANNA SEE..
but rather Than encrypting you blog and spreading awareness you are in here and finding faults in Us!
Thats Pretty usual, everyone in here is doing the same But that doesnt end in here,
Firstly you think Making a blog and awaking the youngistaani is what you wanna do....then thats certainly useless All the People are very Well Alert in this Hype world of Terrorism now a days and if you think that making a blog can help..
than go ahead i wont say anything But Just Let me know the 5 major Affects you can Create by your blog...!
Tryna come to reality!

After getting these words from him few of his friends came up and gave a "Yaaawwwwning " reaction for my blog.. Their Momentary enjoyement became an embarrasing moment for me.

I never expected that I'll ever get to receive such reactions.. Appreciations are very flattering and soothing to receive but Criticism leaves a better impact. I was in tears after getting such reactions and shared my bad experience with my Friend. He comforted me down and boosted up my Moral. He told me few things which really changed my perspective of seeing things. After having conversation with him I got to know some new things about people around.

There are 3 different categories of people around:-

1. One who will listen to everyone but they'll do what they want.

2. One who hates to be told by someone else what to do and what not to. They liked to be told or explained only when they want.

3. One who lives and acts on someone else's suggestions.

That means the Guy who criticised me was from Category 2..hehehe.. People from category 1 are commonly found.. Every second person falls under that category only.. It is wise enough to do what you feel is right. People of second category..hmmm..hehe Quite harsh to deal with. And People from third category.. Ummm.. don't know what to say about them...hehe.. They must be teacher's choice in their school and college days.. and may be their Boss's choice at their job place and hmmmm.. must be politicians favourites too.. 

Anyways it was a good lesson for me. I have promised myself that I would not impose my thinking and ideas on others, will let other decide if they want to follow it or not. My act will leave a better impact than my words.

It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness.

Just to take out my frustration, i'll say few things which I wanted to say to that Guy.. 

Its a very usual thing to witness.. The fellow who is fired up with enthusiasm are most likely to fired by people around. Thats what happened with me also. You laugh because I'm different, I laugh because you all are the same. Atleast I am taking an initiative but you don't have even guts of thinking of that. No man ever injured his eyesight by looking on the bright side of things, but I guess things were different in your case your brain got injured by looking at the brighter side of things   

People are like tea bags - You have to put them in hot water before you know how strong they are! Your words acted as Hot water for me.. You Just wait and watch How strong I become after getting all that criticism. You asked me to let you know the 5 major Affects I can Create by my blog... Boy mind it I will bring 10 major changes and then I'll talk to you. I want to say one more thing wear spectecales my age is 20 and not 14-15.. Clearly mentioned in my profile.. ohh.. Um sorry I forgot that you have a tedency of overlooking good things..hehe.. Atlast I'll say just one thing no matter what all you people say about me nothing will shake my thinking.. its an old proverb naa Dogs bark let them bark... Ooppss ..bad on my part.... Please Forgive me.... Just an Out Burst 

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